Relationships
Someone said, “Marriage begins when you look at your partner and you want to kill them.” This was really interesting and too crazy for me. I am not married, but I understand it now. I never imagined how someone I will always want to admire, look at and blush all the...
New World, Expired Systems
Our systems in Africa are mostly inherited from our colonizers. Each African country celebrates independence every year, celebrating freedom from the colonizers but we still do things the way they taught us. Our judiciary, community setup, way of dressing, and the...
Expectations
They say, “ask a woman what she wants from a man and watch her describe a slave.” Some may say the same for men. The reality is that our expectations sometimes are just too high to be real. We want someone who completes us, who makes us whole, and we forget that it is...
